News from Glens Falls

Give thanks to The Lord, for He is good!
His love and mercy endures forever.
1 Chronicles 16 :34

Time flies, it is already mid January… I hope your Christmas
season was as blessed as ours was with family and friends. We
celebrate the season with JESUS as the REASON right up to January 6th
and the Feast of the Epiphany. Thinking how sad to see Christmas trees
discarded on the curb side on what we call Boxing Day, a day we try to
always host a traditional English Christmas afternoon tea party. For
those on Facebook, you may have seen photos of the food!!! But the new
year is here and the winter weather has sadly wrought havoc all across
the country. We have had very cold temperatures and quite a lot of
snow. We hope you are all keeping free from the winter ills and
chills.

We were in Boston last week for Noel’s appointment with Dr Soiffer at
the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute. We had had to delay for a week
because a long time friend died suddenly 2 days before Christmas and
we wanted to be able to attend the memorial service and support his
family.

The weather last week was kind and on both travel days to and from
Boston it was cold but dry and sunny driving east (going) and west
(coming back) through hill country called The Berkshires… even in the
winter the countryside is very beautiful… Snow on the ground and
frozen lakes. We were blessed to stay at Hope Lodge again and
blessed by a volunteer group who came in and cooked a very delicious
evening meal on Wednesday for everyone staying there.

The results of the many routine tests (pulmonary, vascular, heart,
blood, bone marrow, kidney, liver) Noel had at his last visit were all
normal and present no cause for concern or need any deeper
investigation. We are very grateful for all this as the body can
sometimes react differently after a transplant, so we are very happy
all is functioning well 19 months later. PTL! His blood work stays
about the same has it has been for some time – acceptably ‘normal’
White cell counts are good and in the normal range, with red cells and
platelets still being lower than normal but of no great concern to the
Specialist. Noel’s overall general health is good. All his medications
remain the same apart from Dr S taking him off one drug (Fluconazole)
which he had been taking since the transplant to prevent fungal type
infections. We trust he will now be able to ward of any infections
himself. If you notice mushrooms growing out of his ears you will know
his immune system needs attention!

Noel still gets times when he is very tired exacerbated by a common
cold he has been fighting this past week. But we continue to try and
keep fit with our walking when we can and have now also joined a
Silver Sneakers water fitness class. This week will be the first
session – I just hope the water is warm!

So, over all at this 19 month point past the transplant Dr Soiffer is
very pleased and life is going well. Noel’s bone marrow is now 100%
donor and not showing any abnormal cells. All Noel’s old diseased bone
marrow is gone!! PTL again! Progress is being made and Noel does not
have to return for another check up for 2 months (lengthened from 6
weeks), so the next appointment is in early March.

Meanwhile, Noel is laying plans and preparing and organizing for
ministry for this year, for example, we plan to attend a military
ministry conference in the area we used to live. It takes place
towards the end of February and will give us a chance to see many old
friends, visit our ‘home’ church (which supports and ‘sends’ us out as
missionaries with ACCTS (www.accts.org), and, we hope and pray, meet
Noel’s donor for the first time. We are also grateful that Noel’s
commissioning as a Lay Chaplain by the Anglican Church in North
America (ACNA) seems to have given added value and endorsement to his
ministry calling to encourage military people, especially chaplains
and veterans around the world that God is on their doorstep and wants
to make them whole in Christ (Luke 10:9. The Message). Please pray for
a wonderful visit to the Hampton Roads area and also for Noel as he
speaks to a multi-faith group in Saratoga Springs on February 13th
about the role of prayer in spiritual healing.

Our lives seem to always be busy… never getting to the end of the ‘to
do’ lists… which of course is a good thing – no time to get
bored!

Charlotte and Lucy keep us on our toes and they are great fun. It is
real privilege to live so close to them and share in their lives
almost daily. We miss having such closeness with our other
grandchildren, Eve and Will, in England. But we are still able to stay
well connected through Skype, FaceTime, the phone and email. So,
either side of the ‘pond’, both families are doing well keeping busy
with work and school.

Our very best wishes and prayers for a blessed 2014 to you all. We
were grateful for the many Christmas greetings, letters and cards we
received. Thank you all for you ongoing concern, love, encouragement,
support and prayers. We are truly blessed by you all.

Our prayer requests are that Noel’s progress continues to go really
well. We are very aware that not everyone who has a stem cell
transplant does as well as Noel has done. And we hope that the change
in his health insurance coverage will not add extra financial costs to
us. The previous policy was abruptly ended at the end of last year and
he has now had to take out a different one with different coverage,
making Boston ‘out of network’. Health insurance is very complicated.
I think the health insurance companies only have their profits in
mind, not us the patients!!! I am sure some of you feel the same
way… But thankfully we do have cover.

Please stay in touch. Keep us updated with your news. God Bless you.

Thanksgiving and Christmas 2013

Glens Falls, December 18th. 18 months post Transplant.

‘Sing to The Lord for he has done glorious things, let it be known to all the World’ — Isaiah 12:5

‘Today , a Savior has been born, He is Christ The Lord’ — Luke 2:11

Life has been busy for us this past couple of months… And no news from us is actually good news… We have traveled to Ottawa, Canada and to Birmingham, Alabama (see notes on this from Noel later in this post ). We have been busy with grandparent duties with the girls and trying to exercise more as life returns almost to normal. It is now 18 months since Noel had his stem cell transplant and life was put on hold. Praise the Lord that He has brought us through the difficult times.

Noel’s appointment last month was moved from our regular Wednesday to Monday so we could be home for Thanksgiving with the family and enjoy our traditional meal together.

The appointment was actually many appointments that kept us at the Dana Farber Cancer Clinic for almost 12 hours… A long day.. It was because Noel had to have a lot of different but routine tests..to make sure his progress is good.. which it is… Dr S is pleased… although there has been little change in his blood counts. He decided not to change any thing so Noel’s drug regime stays the same. He feels good. Has times when he needs to rest. But I think we all need that! So at Thanksgiving as everyday we had so much to give thanks for. We know we are blessed. Noel’s next appointment is on Monday December 30th, so this year, unlike last year, we are at home for Christmas.

We have been busy carrying out ministry activities with ACCTS, By His Wounds (BHW) and with the Anglican Church in North America (ACNA) since our last update.

We had a lovely weekend in Ottawa, Canada in early November. We became members of their Military Christian Fellowship (MCF) when we lived at CFB Suffield, Alberta, from 1987-89 when Noel was the senior infantry officer at a high intensity British Army war training unit. We had been to several annual MCF meetings before so it was very nice to see several old friends and make some new ones. Although the meeting was short on numbers, the prayer and planning for the coming year and strategic planning for the future was extremely important. Thank God for a successful meeting and safe driving, especially a snowy 4 hour drive home.

The following weekend, we flew to Birmingham, Alabama to attend an ACNA Lay Chaplain Academy. We felt very strongly led to go. It was an intensive but excellent weekend, culminating in Noel being commissioned by the ACNA Bishop to the (US) Armed Forces, a good friend and colleague in ministry, along with three or four others. So, now he can be addressed as “Chaplain” and has a special ‘brothers collar’ to go with it! Please pray for discernment about when to wear the collar and use the title, so it enhances and gives added value to the ongoing ministry with ACCTS and BHW. Holding this commission should enhance the credibility of the ministry to Chaplains and combat (mostly) Veterans nationally and internationally.

Unfortunately the 15th Welcome Home Initiative, the next day after leaving Alabama, had to be cancelled. Several Veterans withdrew their registrations in the three days preceding the retreat, leaving too small a group. Nevertheless, we were present at the conference center in case anyone came for the public ‘Welcome Home’ service. A young National Guardsman not long back from Afghanistan did come. He is on full time active duty and we had a good chat with him and prayed over him. Pray this young Soldier will gather a few of his friends together and ask us to start a weekly group using the WHI DVDs and the Combat Trauma Healing Manual.

Other ministry activities carry on, especially one-to-one fellowship, mainly through social media email and phone calls. Activities included Noel and another WHI team member having a display table at a Veteran’s peer-to-peer gathering at a local college. We pray some seeds of healing were sown and, watered by the Holy Spirit, will produce abundant fruit (healed and changed lives) in the future. Noel was also involved in regular Board meetings of two ministries near and dear to his heart – By His Wounds and the Olive Branch International – both of which were successful.

We are very blessed and grateful to be able to minister the love and healing power of Jesus to Chaplains and Veterans and would value your prayers for its solid and successful growth.

Traditionally at Christmas people send out news letters. And we all catch up on the comings and goings of everyone’s lives and families, and marvel at how fast the years seems to pass. I think we have kept everyone well updated this year… at least we have tried, through our updates online. So will not repeat old news…

December 20, 1970

Dec 20, 1970 — Meryl and Noel Wedding Day

One news worthy item is, amazingly Noel and I celebrate our 43rd Wedding anniversary on Friday 20th December. Life has been an adventure. We are so glad we have had each other to travel it’s ups and downs together.

We hope you all have a very blessed and happy Christmas. And remember Jesus is the reason for the season. He is our greatest gift.

Thank you all again for your love, support and prayers, all your messages of encouragement, phone calls and visits… God has so greatly blessed us through you all. We give Him thanks and praise. Please continue to keep in touch with us. I will continue to update this page about every 6 weeks after Noel’s appointments.

God bless you!

16-months Past Stem Cell Transplant

Hope Lodge, Boston
Wednesday October 23rd 2013
16-months past stem cell transplant

“Don’t fret or worry, instead of worrying, letting God know your concerns. Before you know it, everything will come together for good.” — Philippians 4 : 6-7; (The Message)

Returning home after Noel’s appointment 3 weeks ago, we drove the long way through Vermont enjoying the wonders of Gods creation, the season of Autumn. What amazing colors everywhere. A camera cannot capture the variation of the leaves and the brilliance of them on sunny days or even on dull days they are amazing.

Back home again life has been very busy: Spending time in Pennsylvania at the ACCTS staff meetings! Hosting friends in our home and grandparent duties along with my quilting retreat (one of 3 a year I like to attend). Along with all the travel and busy days we have also been trying to keep up our walking and have done 4 miles on a number of days. But all this seemed by last weekend to have taken a toll on Noel. He was feeling very tired and just not himself. So for the first time doubts about his healing started to creep in. Had he reached the limit? But today our minds were put at ease. Whilst taking his morning shower, Noel heard an almost audible voice clear and loud, “do not limit me in any way, shape or form at all.” At DFCI, Dr Soiffer was pleased that Noel’s red and white blood counts were within the normal range. His platelets still low but steady. His liver levels are also back to normal. His kidney ‘count’ is a little high but less so than 3 weeks ago and still not a great concern. Dr Soiffer reassured us that everything is great. He is happy with Noel’s progress and explained to us that although the future remains unknown, things look good. He stressed continuing to just take everyday as it comes. Noel’s medications will continue at the same level for now. Dr S does not expect to see Noel being off any of them until next year, sometime around the 2 year mark. But he may have to be on some longer, maybe long term, even though the aim is to eventually stop taking them altogether Dr S also told us that, unlike many cancer patients who reach a day when a line is drawn under their treatment and recovery and they are told they do not need to be seen or have tests anymore, Noel will remain on the ‘books’ at the Dana Farber for the rest of his life with checks ups along the way. As everyone who has a transplant is different they can not predict the future. But we are happy they intend to keep an eye on Noel into the future. We are so grateful to God for the amazing care and concern every one at Dana-Farber has always shown to Noel. We feel blessed by Noel being treated there.

Dr Soiffer was happy that the side effects of the GVHD are much less since the steroid was increased. Although GVHD is still evident in Noel’s mouth, he has not had the horrible sores for a couple of weeks now, so Dr S said to return to see him in 5 or 6 weeks when Noel will be due for more immunizations, an echocardiogram and a pulmonary function test. These are routine at this stage of recovery, so to fit in with our busy schedule in November we have booked to see him again on November 23rd. This is a Monday, so we will be home in time for Thanksgiving with the family in Glens Falls. Supposing things go to plan, our next appointment after that will be in January 2014, meaning this year we will be home for Christmas.

I will now let Noel write a short ministry update:

  • Just 3 days after getting home from the last Boston visit, we drove nearly 500 miles to the Officers’ Christian Fellowship (OCF) Eastern retreat center at White Sulphur Springs, near Bedford, south central Pennsylvania. It was here on our first ever visit in 1989 that we felt called to prayerfully dedicate our lives before the Lord to serve him all the days of our lives by proclaiming the kingdom of God and healing the sick (Luke 9:2 and 10) with the armed forces of the world.We have ministered ever since then with ACCTS carrying out this commission in several different ways. This year’s excellent and most enjoyable staff meeting near enough marked our 19th year with ACCTS as full time missionaries. Hearing reports from around the world, meeting old friends, enjoying the Fall leaves and weather of the Allegheny Mountains and hearing some most challenging talks on true Christian stewardship by Gary Hoag, a noted and much sought after speaker, all combined to make the meeting a memorable one.
  • During the last 3 weeks we have been able to interact face to face with several Chaplains, including a Canadian Army friend and his wife. There has been much mutual encouragement in these conversations and times of prayer. We have also connected with other Chaplains by phone and social media. Most of our Chaplain friends are themselves Veterans who have served in combat areas, but we have also continued to interact with other Veterans on a regular basis. Also we have continued to prepare for the upcoming Welcome Home Initiative retreat (November 18-20. See www.byhiswoundsministry.org). Noel is preparing a workbook for the Veterans who come and Meryl has been gathering beautiful hand made quilts to give to them.
  • Noel has been advising and helping a Cru Military Staff Member get an Alpha course going at the Warrior Transition Battalion at Fort Belvoir, Virginia. Now in its 4th week, the course is going well and the 8 or so who come are enjoying the fellowship and discussion time, even though they have only 1hour for each session. Please keep praying for deep spiritual transformation in the souls of those who come.
  • In the coming month we will go to Ottawa, Canada the weekend of Nov 9/10 to attend the annual meeting of the Canadian Military Christian Fellowship. We are still members from our time in Alberta at CFB Suffield/BATUS from 1987-89. It is a 4 hour drive each way from home.
  • We fly to Birmingham, Alabama to attend a Commissioned Lay Chaplains training weekend on Nov 15-17. All being well, and God confirming it, Noel will be commissioned as a Lay Chaplain in the Anglican Church in North America for ministry with the armed forces. We feel being commissioned is the right thing to do and will further enhance our ministry with ACCTS.
  • November 18-20 sees the next (18th) Welcome Home Initiative at Longfellow’s Inn and Conference Center, Saratoga Springs. Please pray for full attendance and for the peace of the Lord to come powerfully into the hearts and souls of all those attending. They so much need relief and healing from suffering and trauma caused through combat operations.
  • We also ask for your consistent prayers for plans for the next 14 months or so. We plan to take part in a major military ministry training event which happens every 10 years. Called Global Interaction, it is in South Africa in early December 2014. This will include Military Christians from well over 100 countries from all around the world. The trip also involves a strategic prayer and planning meeting for key military ministry staff, listening to God and discerning the future direction of military ministry around the globe.

That’s a summary of what we are involved in with the ACCTS ministry now Noel is working full time again! No retirement in sight here!

News from our family here and in the UK is all good. All 4 grandchildren are healthy and doing well at school and preschool. Their parents are always busy but give time to their families to enjoy days out together at the weekends. The Fall is a great time for farm and countryside visits. Plans are now being made for the UK family to visit the USA next summer. We are all greatly excited at the prospect of our family being all together in the same place and our 4 grandchildren spending time together getting to know each other.

We are always grateful to you all for continuing to follow our journey. We are blessed by your prayers, support, messages and visits. You make a huge difference in our lives. Thank you so much!

Please continue to pray for us and our children and grandchildren. Pray for safe travel for us all, for good health during the coming winter days and lots of excellent quality family time.

Our prayers for you all continue so please update us on your needs. We love staying in contact, even if we are not always good at replying. We do read all the messages you send, even if we have ‘senior moments’ remembering all the details!

God richly bless you at this season of Thanksgiving.

Transplant plus 16 months

It’s been 6 weeks since I posted an update… 16 months post transplant

‘…they shall mount up with wings as eagles, they shall run and not be weary and they shall walk and not faint’. Isaiah 40:31.

The six weeks since we returned from the UK and Noel’s last appointment in Boston have gone by very fast. We have been doing a lot of early morning walking trying to build up our stamina and enjoying the lovely Fall weather we have been blessed with this year. Noel has felt good but feeling a little more tired than he has been for some while… and still has a number of mouth sores and the ongoing digestive problems. But everyone tells him he is looking good, including me! I think he is better than the average!!

Today we saw Dr. Soiffer. Noel’s blood tests revealed his levels of red blood cells to be stable but still low at 3.45, white blood cells, stable at 4.2 are within the normal range and his platelets also stable but lower than normal at 102. All these figures are very slightly lower than the last visit on August 23rd.

Today Dr. S showed concern but was not worried about Noel’s liver and kidney function levels, which are both slightly elevated. Dr. S decided to up Noel’s dose of the steroid a little and to see him again in 3 weeks. We are happy with this although we were planning Boston trips every 6 weeks, but we are pleased that Dr. S likes to keep a close eye on Noel.

We are not discouraged but trust in the Lord and mount up with wings as eagles…

We recently had the good news that Noel’s stem cell donor has indicated he would like contact with us. No contact can be made until a year after the transplant… we have now passed that date… and have been given his name and address. He lives in Virginia Beach… which is a sort of coincidence since we lived in that area for 10 years. We hope soon to make contact with him and possibly meet him one day… to thank him for his gift of new life.

Noel also had his ‘flu shot today… which will hopefully protect him in the coming ‘flu season.

We are blessed to again be able to stay this week at the Hope Lodge. We are now on the wait list for a room for Noel’s next appointment at the DFCI , 22 October for 2 nights. Hopefully a room will become available (please pray that this will indeed happen) otherwise we will have to stay in a hotel.

Our lives have been busy, helping with daycare for Lucy and before and after school care for Charlotte… They are both doing well Charlotte is enjoying First Grade and Lucy her 2 mornings at preschool.

We were very proud parents last week when Toby was one of the 20 local people to receive an award “20 under 40” sponsored by our local newspaper. He, along with 19 others, were chosen from a submitted list of 92 names as influential local leaders with excellent potential for the future. We were able to celebrate with him at the Awards Lunch for family and friends from work and his church.

In the last couple of weeks we have also been blessed by visits from 2 sets of good friends from England. Tamsin and Steve came to lunch while touring the Boston and New England area. We had not seen them for more than 6 years. But those years quickly drifted away and we could not believe it had been so long. Ted and Caroline came to stay for the weekend. They last visited us just after we moved to Glens Falls, 6 years ago, but they have hosted us 4 or 5 times in their home in England since then. What a blessing from the Lord good friends are.

Charles and family continue to do well. Sarah in her teaching role and Eve and Will in first grade and Nursery at school. Charles continues to be very busy traveling internationally every week. In the last three weeks he has attended trade shows and meetings in Berlin, Amsterdam, Barcelona, Mexico and Luxembourg.

Noel writes… Life has been increasingly busy on the ministry front too, but it is so good to get back into serving God through serving Chaplains and Veterans. There have been two pray and plan Board meetings for Rev. Nigel Mumford’s new ministry, By His Wounds (BHW) (www.byhiswoundsministry.org or facebook.com/ByHisWounds) and Noel and a BHW Colleague are planning and preparing the next Welcome Home Initiative being held at Longfellow’s Hotel and Conference Center, Saratoga Springs, from November 18-20. We will be trying out the new teaching material on DVD, which was made during the summer. Noel is editing a participants booklet for the retreat and would appreciate prayer that a helpful, encouraging and inspiring booklet will result. Noel has also kept in touch with several Chaplains and Veterans and has hopefully been an encouragement to them as he listens, tries to understand them and the points they are making, and then prays with them openly or silently. His role is not to counsel but often he is able to suggest advice borne out of his own experiences. Noel has also begun to try and recruit scholarship donations for international military folk who need help to get to the next AMCF world event (held only once every 10 years) to get to Global Interaction, a huge training and equipping the saints event in South Africa from Nov 30 to Dec 6 next year (for more information, please contact Noel). Lastly, can you pray for an exciting development that we pray will help the healing of male and female Wounded Warriors at Fort Belvoir, Virginia. A lunchtime Alpha course starts at the Warrior Transition Battalion this week. We thank God for ministry cooperation with Cru Military and their staff member, COL, USA Ret, Keith Morgan, an old friend, who will lead the course on behalf of Chaplain D. We pray for a huge outpouring of God’s power to bring spiritual peace to these brave Soldiers and their families.

Prayer needs… AND praises…

  • To be able to stay at Hope Lodge on October 21-23.
  • For ongoing healing progress, especially regularizing of liver and kidney functions, platelets and red blood count; fatigue, mouth sores and alimentary canal issues.
  • For an enjoyable and productive ACCTS staff meeting at White Sulphur Springs, south central Pennsylvania from October 6-12. We are both going to represent our ministry.
  • For the new Alpha course at Fort Belvoir (see details above). To the best of our knowledge, Alpha has not been used in this way before.
  • For the ongoing preparation and planning for the November Welcome Home Initiative at Saratoga Springs (see details above).
  • For ‘being like Jesus with skin on’ as we minister (listening, loving and praying) within our family; at church; on the healing prayer team at the Spiritual Life Center; with By His Wounds; and one-to-one with Chaplains and combat Veterans.

Next update will be after Noel’s next appointment on October 23 rd at the Dana Farber Cancer Institute.

Thank you all for your continuing interest in our journey… We pray for you all as we see your names and when your names pop into our minds which is often. Please continue to keep in touch with us, we greatly value your friendship and faithfulness to us. God bless you and keep you in His perfect peace and fill your hearts with joy…

Back home from Europe and back into a routine

‘Blessing and Glory and Wisdom and Thanksgiving and Honor and Power and Might be to our God forever and ever’ — Rev.7:12

It now seems a long time ago that we were about to fly to the UK for our long awaited trip… We had a very blessed and wonderful time. We spent over 2 weeks with our family in the north of England — Charles, Sarah and Evelyn, age 5, and William, age 3. Our fear that after a 2 year gap the children would be shy of us was immediately dispelled with the smiles and welcome hugs they gave us and we soon fell right back into place as Granny and Poppa… We spent a happy week at the seaside with them and another fun filled week back in their home area. The weather was good, fine and warm. The time passed way too fast and it was hard to say goodbye.

We then began our travel south, staying in the Midlands. We saw good friends in Lichfield and Sutton Coldfield and family in Birmingham and the Cotswolds. Never enough time with everyone but great time none the less.

Next, we continued on to stay in the Cambridge area, spending a few happy days with Meryl’s brother, Tony, and sister in law, Rita. We spent a precious time with their daughter, Meryl’s niece, and her husband and daughter… A lovely but too short stay.

Going on to the London area, we stayed both with Noel’s sister, Joycelin, and her husband Bill, along with spending a day with their daughters Amanda and Penny and their children. Also staying with Noel’s brother, Julian, and his wife, Ann. This included dinner together with Noel’s nephew, Dominic, and his family. It was a busy but fun filled visit.

The blessings of the trip are way too many to list… We are grateful for our family and friends and their generosity on so many levels to us. But a few highlights were the time spent with each friend and family member which was very special including the chance for Noel and his brother and sister to reconnect with cousins they had only ever seen twice before in over 60 years! We all had a great day together. Noel spent a great afternoon with his brother watching Arsenal’s first game of the new soccer season, the first match they had been to together for over 50 years.

We returned to the USA one day late on August 21st due to a technical fault with our plane on the London to Amsterdam leg of the journey. This caused us to miss our connection to Boston but thanks to KLM we spent a very comfortable night in a hotel and flew the next morning. Acting for us, Toby was able to rearrange Noel’s appointments from Wednesday to Friday and we finally arrived home safe and sound very late Friday evening… Since then our feet have not touched the ground as we have been back in to the swing of our busy everyday life… And being Granny and Poppa to Charlotte and Lucy… They and their mom and dad have also had a busy summer…

One activity they did every Saturday afternoon during July and August was to hold a Lemonade Stand on our driveway… To raise money for the American Cancer Society… to pay it forward for the help and encouragement our family has received and to teach Charlotte, as a cancer survivor herself, the importance of helping others. They have raised over $500! Wonderful!

Noel did really well for the whole trip… He was able to pace himself and his energy levels stayed good… he did have some sore mouth issues and a slight head cold but did not let either spoil his enjoyment.

His appointment at the Dana-Farber on Friday went well… His blood work had stayed stable showing not much difference either way. Dr Soiffer continues to be happy with him and has again reduced by a little the drugs he is on in an effort to in the long term get him off all the drugs. Since Noel’s progress continues to be good he has now been moved to an appointment every 6 weeks…

We realize how blessed we both are. We give great praise for the wonderful summer we have had and for our families. We do not take Noel’s health and recovery for granted, we have met and know many others who are struggling in many ways with their health. We simply try to be prayerful healing encouragers, helping and serving others.

Thank you for you love, encouragement, support and faithfulness to us, please continue to keep us in your prayers…

  • for Noel to continue to be healthy, he still has some immune issues.
  • for our ever increasingly busy lives….no retirement here!
  • for our family on both sides of the Atlantic;
    both our son’s increasing busy work lives;
    for our daughters in law as they juggle work and motherhood;
    for all four grandchildren who next week begin new school years…
    for health and safety for them all.
  • for Noel’s ministry and the funds he needs to carry out the travel he hopes to be able to do. Ministry income has fallen by $500 each month this year, which immediately limits what Noel thinks the Lord is calling him to do: but we remain convinced that God supplies the resources necessary, for example, and specifically, $2000 estimated, needed for travel and subsistence for visits for the sake of Chaplains and Veterans (healing of trauma) to southern Pennsylvania and south east Virginia in October. Noel is so wanting to be back into traveling for his ministry again.

Our next regular update will be after Noel’s next appointment on October 2nd 2013.

We remember you all in our prayers do please stay in touch and let us have your own updates for prayer. God Bless you!

One Year, One Month, Four Days Post Transplant

Bone Marrow Transplant RibbonHope Lodge, Boston. July 15th 2013

“This is the day The Lord has made; we will rejoice and be glad in it” Psalm 118:24.

We continue to give thanks and to rejoice as Noel continues to be doing so very well. His Doctors at the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute here in Boston are very pleased with his continued good progress.

Today, Noel’s blood work and other levels, although not yet ‘normal’, are remaining stable and he is feeling good. He is able to cope with the the level of discomfort from the GVHD and drug side effects… although will be glad when those change for the better. His energy levels are high as long as he paces himself… otherwise fatigue hits him like a wall. We are both extending ourselves with our walking routines and building up strength and fitness.

Today the Doctor took him off one of the immune suppressant drugs that he has been on ever since the transplant. This is a good sign and hopefully will help his immune system to be able to better fight off any germs he may encounter. Amy, Dr. Soiffer’s Nurse Practitioner, kept all the other drugs the same as before. So he has a pharmacy of drugs to take with us tomorrow on our flight to the UK. Hopefully the letter she gave him to take on the plane along with the drugs will satisfy any questions the security people might have.

She also lifted a couple of restrictions. He has not been allowed to drink any alcohol since his transplant but she said he could now sample a Pint of British Beer! But only one glass and no more than twice a week! She also said he could go into the swimming pool but to shower well immediately after getting out. She also reminded him that he must wear his face mask for the whole duration of the airplane flights. That recycled air on the plane is really not healthy, certainly for anyone with a weak immune system, regardless of what the airlines say.

We fly tomorrow (Tuesday 16th) evening from here in Boston to Newcastle upon Tyne, in the north east of England, via Amsterdam in The Netherlands. We will be staying very close to Charles, Sarah, Eve and Will in a self catering cottage for a few days before we all move to Seahouses, a small seaside town about 50 miles further north on the east coast. We will be there for a week, weather permitting, enjoying the sand and rock pools and hunting for shells and fossils and no doubt enjoying an ice-cream or two. It is also close to Holy Island aka Lindisfarne (*). We will then spend a second week back again near to where the family live enjoying day trips with them to local places of interest.

(*) [Christianity came to the north of England during the Roman times, then almost disappeared but was established again by St. Aidan in 635 AD, who built a rudimentary monastery at Holy Island.]

We know the time with the family will pass far too quickly and on August 4th we will travel by train south to stay with friends in Lichfield, near Birmingham for a few days before going on by car to spend time with my brother and his family who all live in the Cambridge area. We will then move to London where we will divide the rest of our time between staying with Noel’s sister, seeing all her family; and staying with Noel’s brother and seeing all his family.

So it is going to be a busy time but a happy time. We fly back to Boston on August 20th from London via Amsterdam, where will be check in to Hope Lodge, be at the DFCI on the 21st for Noel’s appointment and travel home to Glens Falls on the 22nd.

Please pray for our travels, by planes, trains and road – for us both to stay healthy; and for the family, Toby, JoAnn, Charlotte and Lucy, back here as they juggle Charlotte and Lucy’s day care arrangements between their own work schedules and the other grandparents work schedules, with the occasional help from a friend. We have recently taken care of the girls 3 days each week.

Thank you yet again for your faithfulness in continuing this journey with us. Your messages, notes, calls and visits and continued support are a huge blessing and encouragement to us – it would be a much harder road to travel without you all. We hope as you are there for us we are here for others with support and encouragement – sharing God’s love for us all.

Despite rumours to the contrary, we have not retired (haven’t yet found any mention of that word in the Bible!), nor has Noel’s illness caused us to cease the ministry he coordinates through ACCTS (www.accts.org). So, the ministry outreach to Chaplains and Veterans continues. In the past two weeks, Noel has been able to meet separately with three Veterans involved in the Welcome Home Initiative, talk to a senior National Guard Chaplain, take part in two Chaplain teleconference phone calls and minister personally to an Army Chaplain. Noel has been busy encouraging and linking up with other Chaplains and Veterans through Facebook; and has begun working with another Veteran to possibly bring the Alpha course to a Wounded Warriors healing group at a large Army base. All of these folk deeply appreciate the love, comfort, compassion and prayer that Noel brings to their relationships. They often say that it brings healing and Good News, giving them ‘strength for today and bright hope for tomorrow’. Meanwhile please pray about our ministry donation income which has fallen about $700 per month, or nearly 30%, over each of the last 5 months for reasons we know not – none of our donors have indicated any changes in their support arrangements, so we are puzzled as well as challenged by this! By the way, we are always open to the Lord bringing new donors to our team, however small they think their donation is, to complement the 30 or so current (and mostly longstanding donors we already have). Talk to us if the Lord is leading you in this direction.

We pray the Lord’s blessing on you all.

Continuing good news from Boston and Glens Falls

‘See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up: do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the desert and streams in the wasteland.’ Isaiah 43 :19

We give praise and thanks for the new thing the Lord has and is doing… From a very bleak diagnosis just over 2 years ago to now seeing Noel regaining his strength and his body returning to good health along with his enthusiasm for life and having a bright future to now look forward to.

Noel travelled by himself to Boston last week for his Dana-Farber appointment on Monday 17th June. I stayed home to be able to provide daycare for Charlotte and Lucy as their other grandparents were unable to help that day. It felt odd for both of us but we looked at it as yet another move forward… Noel feeling confident to be there with out me and for me to feel confident that he was able to do so.

His blood work was much the same as it has been for the last few weeks… Some numbers need to be better but thankfully none are any worse… So stable is a way to describe them… A reduction in the steroids and the magnesium was the only change in his medications and we pray this will go smoothly with no ill effects. He has still some evidence of GVHD but he is able to manage and cope with it.

We are still eating healthy and walking and exercising… and are both feeling good.

Noel is gradually returning to more involvement with people and his ministry… which is brilliant. In addition to ministering to Chaplains and Veterans (including some still on active duty) with ACCTS (www.accts.org), this past week has seen him take part in a videoconference Board meeting of Olive Branch International (www.olivebranchinternationalonline.com) and a prayer and planning meeting for Rev. Nigel Mumford’s new ministry, By His Wounds, Inc (www.byhiswoundsministry.org). Noel is also a Board member of this exciting new thrust in the healing ministry which will include future Welcome Home Christ-focused spiritual retreats.

We would encourage you to read up about each of these co-operative ministries bringing the Good News and healing to needy men and women, especially those within the military communities of the world. Each is greatly in need of your continued prayers and practical and financial support.

This past week we saw Charlotte graduate from Kindergarten… How fast the year has gone… First Grade starts on September 4th.

Our big news is that the Doctor’s have given Noel permission to travel by air and to visit the UK so long as he wears a face mask in the airplane – recycled air is not always germ free! So we will drive to Boston on July 14 the for his next appointment on Monday 15th, leaving our car with friends, and fly to England on the 16th… This is our first visit for 2 years… and we are excited.

The first 2 weeks will be spent with our son Charles, and Sarah, Evelyn and William locally in their area just outside Newcastle in the northeast of England and on holiday with them at seaside on the east coast. The rest of the time we will be visiting friends in the Midlands and family in Cambridge and London… We will fly back to Boston on August 20th for Noel’s appointment at the Dana Farber on the 21st and return home on the 22nd… Please pray for safe and smooth travel to and from and in the UK. Pray that we both stay healthy, that Noel does not pick up any infections and that he continues to do well on his road to recovery.

We are so grateful to the Lord ‘s provisions for us. We once again can not thank you all enough for supporting us in so many different ways on this continuing journey… We feel so encouraged and very blessed.

God bless you all, enjoy the summer. Stay safe and be well!

Happy 1st Birthday!

Happy 1st BirthdayToday we celebrate Noel Dawes 1st Birthday… yes, he is now officially one year old… ( and getting all those childhood shots) his bone marrow / stem cell transplant that has brought him new life was one year ago today

A year ago he had just gone through 4 days of very aggressive Chemotherapy to ‘kill’ his own bone marrow , the place in your body where all the blood cells and platelets are made, ready to receive the donated stem cells from a stranger… the past year has had difficult days, painful days described by the Doctors as like a ride on a roller coaster and a walk on a tight rope… But we thank God that Noel has made it through… still on the journey to full recovery but this evening we will go out for dinner, our first meal in a restaurant for over a year to our favorite place… The Pepper Mill Family Diner… for the Senior Special!

We are also grateful to everyone who has stood with us and walked alongside us… and of course to the young man who donated his cells to bring life to a stranger… we hope one day to know who he is and to thank him personally.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY NOEL. ♥

Transplant Day +352 – Continuing Progress

Written in Boston, Wednesday June 29th – Post Transplant Day 352.

Once again we are blessed by being able to stay here at the Hope Lodge, where, through the generosity of donors to the American Cancer Society, we have stayed here ‘free’ on over 40 of our visits to Boston.

“And now abideth faith, hope and charity, these three, but the greatest is charity” (1 Corinthians 13:13).

In our lives, through the grace of God, we have been blessed with much faith and this has given us much hope and we have experienced much charity and love from our God and our family and our friends. And we are so very grateful.

Thank you to everyone who has donated to our effort to raise money to ‘Pay it Forward’ to the American Cancer Society…

Our Relay for Life is this Friday / Saturday… in Greenwich, NY. There is still time to visit our team, Hearts of Hope, web page and make a donation… the fund remains open for a while. Every dollar counts and helps in the war on cancer… and in support of those in the battle zone. One in 3 will hear those life changing words, ‘you have cancer’.

Click on this link and scroll down to our team members, click on their name to make a donation… many, many thanks..

http://main.acsevents.org/site/TR?fr_id=49271&pg=team&team_id=1362516

Today’s appointment with Dr. Soiffer at the Dana Farber Cancer Institute, was a good one… Noel has been feeling so much better. The steroid mouth wash has taken away most of the the pain and discomfort of the mouth canker sores although not all of them have gone. He has felt like he has had more energy and is motivated to get on with returning to ‘normal life’ ….especially his work in the mission field with the military. Noel does not believe there is any mention of a retirement plan in the Lord’s work or the Bible, so he looks forward to being busy again.

Although his blood levels remain much the same as they were 3 weeks ago – no great change for the better or the worse – he remains stable. Dr Soiffer decided to lower the oral steroid tablet down a little, saying call him if Noel experiences any changes or needs to ask questions. Please pray this lower dose will not cause the GVHD to manifest itself again in a recurrence of the nasty painful mouth problems (thrush and canker sores).

So praise the Lord, progress is taking place. Last Sunday we attended the morning worship service at St Mary’s Church, Lake Luzerne. The service is known by different names such as the Eucharist, Mass or Communion or the Lord’s Supper and is an import part of our life. It was exactly one year since we had last been there… We had a great welcome back from everyone…and we enjoyed being there. We felt we were able to worship in spirit and in truth. The previous week we had both attended the Welcome Home Initiative (WHI) Healing Retreat at the Spiritual Life Center. Noel having had permission from his Doctor in Boston to be there.

I asked Noel to report on the WHI so these are his thoughts in his own words……
Noel coped well with the intense and tiring three day schedule of listening, showing care and compassion and praying for the 8 combat Veterans and 4 wives who came to thIs, the 14th WHI Retreat at the Spiritual Life Center since March 2008. Noel has co-led three more Retreats in Colorado and Ohio. Meryl played a key role too, both making sure Noel ate ‘safe’ food, but particularly in provisioning the beautiful quilts that each combat Veteran is given. There were several active duty Soldiers from Fort Drum including an Army Chaplain and a female officer,whose husband is currently serving in harm’s way on his third deployment. We were able to organize a very meaningful ‘retreat’ for her 10 year old son who came too. Four retreatants were Vietnam Veterans, and an serving Canadian Air Force Chaplain came for the second time. This retreat was characterized by a wonderful spirit of openness and expectation as to what God might do, almost from the start. Usually this does not develop until the second day. So God delivered mightily, with Christ the Healer being tangibly present in the power of the Holy Spirit. Everyone received healing and blessing in some way or other. One beautiful story is of an American helicopter pilot who evacuated many, many terribly wounded and dead from front line battles, receiving much incoming fire as he did so. He mentioned that he never knew what happened to any of those he saved. As he said that, two of the other Vietnam Veterans, unknown previously to each other, said they had each been ‘casevaced’, wondering aloud if it had been our pilot Veteran who might have been their pilot. They will never know, of course, if he was, but it really doesn’t matter. The healing point is that the pilot, Hal, got some very affirmative feedback and thanks for the extremely dangerous and self-sacrificing job he did in combat, and the other two, John and Lewis, thanked their ‘savior’ and their Savior for rescuing them from certain death. Many tears were shed as we saw this scene come to life in our midst, and great was the praise and thanks to God, who promised to never leave us or forsake us, even if we thought He wasn’t there.

One of the beautiful aspects of the WHI Retreat to us was the way the Lord brought into one focus the several ministries we are involved in: healing; combat Veterans; Chaplain care and support; international military contacts; and the imparting and development of Christian growth, sometimes from scratch, sometimes renewal of a long dead faith and encouragement of firm faith. All this is absolutely ‘Gospel Truth’, preaching the Good News (more through example but also with words) and healing the sick! Hallelujah!

Now I, Meryl, continue to write……..Today, Dr Soiffer said ‘Yes’ to the question Noel asked about going back to the YMCA to use the exercise equipment and the indoor running track….but ‘No’ to going into the pool to swim. There are too many germs there for Noel’s still compromised immune system. Dr. S also said we could go to BAD restaurants …??? “What?” we said… He told us that he meant the less popular ones so as to be with fewer people…so, if we do go out to eat we will have to pick a quiet time at a good restaurant as we don’t like bad ones!! Ha, ha!! But all this is great progress towards living normally again as restrictions are lifted but taking care to be sensible about where we go and what we do.

June 11th will be Noel’s re-birthday, as the medical folk like to call it: that is, the day Noel received the gift of a new life! The first anniversary of his Stem Cell Transplant…. The year has seen many ups and downs…it was at one time described to us as a ‘roller coaster’ and a ‘tightrope’. Nothing was certain. But your prayers sustained us! Noel’s resilience was amazing and the love and support of our family and friends saw us through. God proved to be faithful, as His word says, and new every morning new mercies we saw, as he provided for us in so many ways. We are grateful to God and to each and everyone of you. Not least of course to the young man, 28 years old at the time, who donated new life to Noel in the way of his stem cells. We do hope that now the year has passed he will have indicated that he would like to have contact with us… We certainly would like to have contact with him.

The journey into new life will continue for some time yet with Noel still on a number of medications and still frequent trips to Boston, at the moment every 3 weeks…but we hope as time progresses the time between visits will lengthen. His next appointment is on June 17th.

The grandchildren on both sides of the Atlantic are doing well – as are their parents.

Toby and Charlotte will be spending the night together camping out at the Relay for Life… we hope it is a fine night and not plagued with thunderstorms as last year was, when they had to pack up and leave in the early hours of Saturday morning. JoAnn and Toby celebrate their 12th wedding anniversary this coming Sunday, June 2nd.

The building work at Charles’ and Sarah’s house is now complete and they are all enjoying the extra space the extension gives them. It looks good from the photos we have seen. Charles continues his busy work schedule, traveling this week to a trade show and meetings in Mexico City. Next week he is in three European countries, with Washington DC the week after.

Thank you for continuing to take an interest in this journey we are on… Your continuing love, prayers and support are a huge blessing and encouragement to us both.

We look forward to more real contact, not just this virtual contact with many of you soon…

Please continue to pray for us, and families and our transition back into ‘normal’ life.

God Bless you all.

Transplant Day plus 331

Hope Lodge, Boston. Wednesday 9th May 2013.
+ 331 days post transplant!

“The Lord has done great things for us and we are glad” – Psalm 126:3

Meryl and Noel DawesAs we approach the first anniversary of Noel’s stem cell transplant in just 4 weeks time… we reflect on this past year… and all the events… and are grateful for every day. The not so good ones and the good ones… But to name ever blessing would fill a book… But we recognize everyone and are exceedingly glad and praise the Lord.

Today’s appointment with Amy was a good one… She is very pleased with Noel’s continued progress. She said he remains stable, not yet normal but stable. She is happy with his general good health. He remains on the same levels for his drugs although Amy did make a further adjustment in Noel’s favour to the dose level of one of the immunosuppressive drugs he takes. The aim is to get him off this drug altogether and she expects this to also help his kidney levels to improve. Thankfully his liver levels are now back to normal, for the third measurement running. His blood levels remain much the same as 3 weeks ago hence the use of the word “stable”.

White blood cells: Today 4.5, last time 4.3, now within the normal range
Red blood cells: Today 3.24, last time 3.30, still below normal
Platelets: Today 96, last time 100, also still below normal

Noel has had more overall energy and less fatigue the last couple of weeks and is exercising at least 3 times a week, walking 3 or 4 miles in an hour (that is 3 if he walks along with me and 4 if he walks faster than me!). He is also doing 300 plus stairs (way more stairs than I can do) so his strength is returning for which we are so grateful.

Sadly his very sore mouth from the GVHD continues… Amy decided to keep his oral steroids at the same level, the eventual aim is to reduce that level again. But she has prescribed him a steroid mouthwash to use 3 times a day… hopefully this will bring some relief. Please continue to pray for this.

Good news! Noel is moving towards life returning back to normal… Amy said today that if he continues to feel well she is willing to allow him to take part in the Welcome Home Initiative Retreat for Veterans at the Spiritual Life Center on the 20th to 22nd of May. This has been so much the desire of Noel’s heart and one we have given much prayer to… But some restrictions will apply… mostly connected with his food… he will be able to have any food that is freshly cooked but not food that has been kept warm on a buffet and definitely no salad bar type foods. So I will have to make sure he is at the head of the line and not doing his normal thing of talking and being at the end of the line! He will also be allowed to take off his face mask unless in confined and in close contact with people… but as the rooms are spacious that should not be a problem… but no hugging! These retreats are intense and very tiring so I will be there to make sure he does not overtax himself… as although he feels well his body has been through a great deal. Amy giving her permission for this is such a big answer to prayer. PTL, it is such a wonderful move forward on the road to his full recovery!

Family here and in England are all well and enjoying the Spring… and being able to be outside in the fresh air more now winter is just a memory.

Just 3 weeks to go until our family here in the USA will all be taking part in the Greenwich Relay for Life to celebrate and remember those whose lives are forever changed by the word ‘cancer’. Did you know that at some time in their life it is estimated that 1 in every 3 people will suffer from some form of the disease…

The American Cancer Society in the USA does so much to help patients and their families… this year we are raising funds to ‘pay it forward’ so others will also receive the help we have received… We have been so blessed by the many nights of ‘free’ accommodation here at the Hope Lodge in Boston, one of the many such facilities run by the ACS all across the States.

We are so grateful for the donations we have received already but we hope we can raise even more by the end of the month… Please visit our Relay for Life team pages ….and help us reach our goal many, many times over. Thank you for partnering with us in our efforts.

Noel… http://main.acsevents.org/site/TR/RelayForLife/RFLCY13EA?px=31513675&pg=personal&fr_id=49271

Meryl… http://main.acsevents.org/goto/MerylDawes

As you may know our granddaughter Charlotte is also a cancer survivor… and this year has her own fund raising page, sadly she has not yet received any donations… If you are able to donate a few dollars to her effort it would such an encouragement to her. She will be be 6 years old in July. It would be good for her to know that she is helping others as she celebrates being a survivor at this year’s Relay for Life… Thank you for considering this.

Charlotte… http://main.acsevents.org/site/TR/RelayForLife/RFLCY13EA?px=16077675&pg=personal&fr_id=49271

Please continue to pray for:

  • Noel to stay well, giving thanks for the wonderful progress and for there to be an improvement in his sore mouth.
  • For the Lord’s blessing on our finances and give thanks for His amazing provisions for us.
  • For Charles, Sarah, Eve and Will in the UK and Toby, JoAnn, Charlotte and Lucy here in the USA.
  • For continued safe travels.
  • For the Welcome Home Initiative…and all those attending. For Noel’s re-growing ministry with US and Canadian Chaplains, for its funding and especially for the development of international relationships, in partnership and cooperation with numerous others who minister to Chaplains.

We are so very grateful to all our family and friends and everyone who takes time to read about our ‘journey’ , to pray for us, and to be there for us in so many ways… You are our encouragers. We thank you all and thank God for His faithfulness.

God bless you!